In my years of men’s ministry, few books have come up as often as R. Kent Hughes’ “Disciplines of a Godly Man”. It’s thought-provoking and inspiring, and it gives men a clear picture of what it looks like to grow in godliness one habit at a time.
A practical, biblical guide to the habits that shape a godly man.
Best for: men who want to grow spiritually, and men's groups looking for a solid study.
Highlights
- 23 chapters on the disciplines of a godly life
- Biblical teaching with real-life application
- Works for personal reading or a men's group
Watch-outs
- Challenging by design, not a light read
- Best read slowly, a chapter at a time
At a glance
| Author | R. Kent Hughes |
|---|---|
| Edition | Updated edition |
| Chapters | 23 |
| Topics | Prayer, reading, reflection, integrity, relationships, leadership |
| For | Men, individually or in groups |
Overview
Hughes draws on his experience as a pastor, counselor and Christian leader. Across 23 chapters he weaves together biblical teaching, historical examples and modern application, and his central theme is clear: godliness grows when we cultivate disciplines that foster spiritual growth, personal integrity and authentic relationships.
Key concepts
- Self-reflection. Hughes shows how honest introspection shapes our character and actions.
- Building character through disciplines. Practices like journaling, reading, prayer and meditation shape a man over time.
- Cultivating integrity. Practical advice for living with integrity at home and at work.
Themes
- Spiritual discipline over emotional instability. Steady habits anchor us when feelings rise and fall.
- Responsibility over freedom. A godly man takes responsibility instead of focusing only on freedom and individualism.
Practical applications
- Personal growth through self-discipline. Guidance for building self-discipline as the foundation of growth.
- Spiritual leadership through integrity. Advice for leaders on putting integrity first in their decisions.
What readers say
What readers love
- A must-read for spiritual growth. Readers often call it essential for developing godly character.
- Self-reflection that changes you. Many say the chapters on self-reflection reshaped how they see themselves and others.
Things to consider
- It asks a lot. This book calls for real change, so it's best for men ready to be challenged.
- Pace yourself. Reading a chapter a week, ideally with other men, works better than reading it straight through.
Who should buy it
A great fit if you
- Want to grow as a man of God
- Lead or attend a men's group
- Are mentoring younger men
Look elsewhere if you
- Want a daily reading plan (try The Bible in 52 Weeks for Men)
- Want a light devotional
Final verdict
If you’re looking for a guide that will shape your character, relationships and leadership, “Disciplines of a Godly Man” is a must-read. Take your time with it, and invite a few brothers to read it with you.
